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Date: 3 - 4 JANUARY 2009



Nous avons commencé le travail pour la plateforme "Parti Social Européen" qui sera présentée aux élections européennes.
Royaume Uni, Pays Bas, France, Belgique, Chypre, Espagne et Grèce sont déjà prets. Les médias grecs font une large publicité à ce sujet.

Buon Natale a Tutti.....
Greetings for a Merry Christmas to you and your families.
In particular...
Our wishes to all the children that live without one parent's love.
Our wishes to all the parents who suffer kidnapped, denied children.
Our wishes to all the medias that do not censure our fight to defend all the children, all the grandparents and all the separated parents.
Our wishes to all the association members for 2009 activities (as 2009 Daddy's Pride).
Greetings to my parents, Teresa and Vittorio, who left me during 2008. Hoping they will love me and protect me.... as they did during all their long life.

Giorgio Ceccarelli
President of Association Figli Negati
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18 December 2008 - Piazza Navona - from 14h00 to 18h00

18 dicembre 2008 - Un pò di Luce per i Bambini Ombre

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Press Release
Rome 18 December 2008

For the fifth consecutive year we will wish a merry Christmas to all the children and in particular to those children that are violently kidnapped and hidden by custodial parents, for most part of the time by the mother.
We will wear Santa Claus dresses and throw balloon with photos and wishes.
To coincide with all the countries in the world we will light loving candles for all the children.
Before Christmas, as we usually do, we will bring presents to the hospitalized children at Bambin Gesù in Rome.
This enriches us and gives us the possibility to offer a smile and an emotion to these little unlucky children and to their parents.
Christmas is coming all over the world. For the first time our event will be shared by parents of many countries.
Dear children, please receive our kindest wishes for a Merry Christmas. Dad is here today, and will be tomorrow... Forever.

Giorgio Ceccarelli and the association
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With the partecipation to both the 18 and 20 December events of
Association DIRITTO (University of Law Students)
Associations Caro papà and Figli Contesi

>>> 20 December 2008 - 15h00 <<<
Gifts distribution to children hospitalized at
Ospedale Pediatrico Bambino Gesu' Rome

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I Comme Identité

13 décembre 2008
Paris - devant l'Assemblée Nationale
Mobilisation interassociative

pour le droit de l’identité des enfants,
et à l’égalité

pour présenter des revendications parentales relatives à l’inégalité de l’éducation des enfants pour un des parents, suite à une séparation ou un divorce, ainsi que certaines graves conséquences.
- Les thèmes déjà évoqués par des associations sont les « lieux » dits « neutres », le Syndrome d’Aliénation Parentale ». Tout le monde peut apporter des propositions sur les sujets nous concernant, de préférence par e-mail.

- Nous invitons toutes les personnes, collectifs, associations, à se mobiliser pacifiquement, devant l’Assemblée Nationale à Paris le 13 décembre 2008 aux alentours de 14h30.
- Aussi souhaiterions-nous être contactés rapidement (avant le 20novembre2008) par les intéressés, ainsi que les responsables de collectifs et d’associations, qui seront présents pour planifier les différentes revendications qui seront présentées le 13 décembre 2008.
D’autres mobilisations sont prévues par la suite (les infos seront sur la page Blog).



Association contre
l'Alienation Parentale

France - 1ère Thèse de Doctorat en Médecine sur le
Syndrome d'Aliénation Parentale
Bénédicte Goudard

ACALPA a le plaisir de vous transmettre la copie de la première thèse de doctorat de médecine sur "le Syndrome d’Aliénation Parentale" soutenue le 22 octobre 2008 à l’Université Claude Bernard Lyon 1, faculté de médecine Lyon-Nord par Bénédicte GOUDARD

L'auteur a obtenu son diplôme d’Etat de docteur en médecine générale avec les félicitations du Jury.

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Lire la version italienne - traduction réalisée par Figli Negati
avec l'autorisation de l'auteur - format pdf



Blog Parental Kidnapping - Mona Lena

Lighting Candles Worldwide
Project by "Three Sides to Every Story", Inc.
18 December 2008 - World

Go to the "Three Sides to Every Story" Internet web site

Lighting Candles Worldwide
Mission Statement

It is our belief that children need both of their parents and deserve to have a relationship with of their loving and willing grandparents.
We believe that all children have a right to have both of their fit and loving parents in their lives, as well as all of their loving and willing grandparents and extended family.
Our goal is to bring awareness to this issue by lighting the whole world, one candle at a time.
Our goal is to light candles in every Town of every state in as many Countries as we can reach, on the same day at the same time.
We hope you will join us in our efforts.
Mission Statement
Our mission at Three Sides to Every Story is a very simple one, the “Unity” for children and their families after separation and/or divorce is our goal.
Our founder has found herself amidst the battle of her life when her son lost his children through divorce. The lies and frauds that have been committed to keep these children away from their father for eight very long years was something she did not want to relive in her life…for she herself having been the target of the same type of abuse and deception as a child.
We strive to bring awareness to the plight of the children and their families.
No child deserves to go to bed at night without feeling loved by both parents and both sides of grandparents and all of their extended family.
Our goal is to educate not only both parents, but to bring awareness to all those who are responsible for writing the laws of our Countries.
“Children Need Both Parents” and by all means “They Deserve to Have Loving Grandparents”
Imagine for a moment Lighting Candles World Wide and all at the same time. Imagine your child knowing we are Lighting Candles World Wide just for them.
We have given this a lot of thought and we have come to the conclusion that everyone can light a candle at their home or in their home town at a designated place.
You can be a part of Lighting Candles World Wide to represent a united front for the children and their need to have both parents and grandparents in their lives.
We have chosen December 18, 2008 for our first annual Lighting Candles World Wide which is exactly one week before Christmas, for this being the hardest time of year for those who miss their children, but especially for the children who are alienated from one of their parents and/or any of their grandparents, or in some cases of their siblings and extended family.
We realize that in far too many cases the children pay a very high price for their adult parents’ actions. We are asking everyone to come together on this very special day of Lighting Candles World Wide. One candle lit from each and every one of us at the same time will make a vibrant light world wide and make this a very special Christmas.
We believe if asked, a child would pick to have both parents instead of just one. We also believe that a child should not be forced or tricked into giving up a parent because the other parent no longer needs or wants that parent.
We are asking for everyone to put the children first and allow our respective Countries to heal the family. There is nothing more important then family. There is no greater gift then family.
Our second annual Lighting Candles World Wide will be April 25, 2009.

Allumer des Bougies dans le Monde Entier
Définition de la mission

Nous sommes convaincus que les enfants ont besoin de leurs deux parents et méritent l’amour de leurs grands-parents.
Nous pensons que tous les enfants ont le droit d’avoir dans leur vie leurs deux parents, s’ils sont dignes de l’être et leur donnent leur amour, ainsi que leurs grands-parents et toute leur famille.
Nous projetons une prise de conscience de cette mission en allumant le monde entier, une bougie à la fois.
Notre projet est d’allumer des bougies dans chaque ville, dans chaque état et dans le plus de pays possibles, le même jour à la même heure.
Nous espérons que vous vous joindrez à nos efforts.
Trois parties pour chaque histoire
Définition de la mission

La mission de « Trois parties pour chaque histoire » est très simple. Notre objectif est l’“Union” pour les enfants et leur famille après le divorce ou la séparation.
Notre fondatrice s’est retrouvée elle-même au beau milieu de la bataille de sa vie lorsque son fils a perdu ses enfants après le divorce. Les mensonges et les fraudes commises dans le but de tenir éloignés ces enfants durant ces huit très longues années ont représenté quelque chose qu’elle ne voulait plus revivre… étant donné qu’elle-même en tant que petite fille avait été l’objectif de tels abus et fraudes.
Nous luttons pour une prise de conscience de cette grave situation dans laquelle se trouvent les enfants et leurs familles. Aucun enfant ne mérite d’aller se coucher le soir avec le sentiment de ne pas être aimé de ses deux parents, de ses grands-parents paternels et maternels et de toute sa famille. Notre but est non seulement d’éduquer les deux parents, mais aussi de provoquer une prise de conscience de la part de tous ceux qui aident à la création des lois dans nos pays. “Les Enfants ont Besoin des Deux Parents” et par tous les moyens “Ils Méritent d’être Aimés par leurs Grands-parents”

Imaginez pour un instant d’Allumer des Bougies dans le Monde Entier et toutes au même moment. Imaginez que nos enfants sachent que nous Allumons des Bougies dans le Monde Entier seulement pour eux.
Nous y avons pensé longuement et sommes arrivés à la conclusion que quiconque peut allumer une bougie chez soi ou dans sa propre ville dans un endroit donné.
Vous pouvez faire partie de cette initiative pour faire partie du front uni en faveur des enfants et de leur besoin d’avoir leurs deux parents et tous leurs grands-parents présents dans leurs vies.
Nous avons choisi la date du 18 décembre 2009 pour notre premier évènement annuel « Allumes une bougie dans le monde entier », exactement une semaine avant Noël, qui représente la période de l’année la plus difficile pour tous ceux qui sentent le manque de leurs enfants mais tout particulièrement pour les enfants qui sont éloignés de l’un de leurs parents et de certains/tous de leurs grands-parents ou, dans certains cas, de toute leur famille.
Nous sommes conscients du fait que dans trop de cas les enfants paient un prix très élevé pour les actions de leurs parents. Nous vous demandons de tous vous unir à cette journée vraiment spéciale à l’occasion de « Allumer une Bougie dans le Monde Entier ».
Une bougie que nous allumerons tous au même moment donnera vie à une lumière vibrante dans le monde entier et fera de Noël prochain une fête très spéciale.
Nous sommes convaincus que si nous le lui demandions, un enfant choisirait d’avoir ses deux parents au lieu d’un seul. Nous sommes également convaincus qu’un enfant ne devrait jamais être obligé ou contraint par la tromperie de renoncer à l’un de ses parents parce que l’autre n’a plus besoin de lui/elle ou ne le/la veut plus.
Nous vous demandons de placer l’enfant en première ligne et de permettre à nos pays de guérir la famille. Il n’y a rien de plus important que la famille. Il n’y a pas de don plus grand que la famille.
La deuxième édition de « Allumer une Bougie dans le Monde Entier » se déroulera le 25 avril 2009.




SWEDEN - "Why is it a Crime to be a Man"
Presentation by Mr. Joakim Ramstedt from Gothenburg, Sweden, the musician
"My hope is that you will spread this film to as many as possible. I want my country to feel ashamed of what they are doing to our children.
Sweden is violating the UN childrens rights act artikel 9 that states tha a child has the RIGHT to a close and intimate relationship with both its parents. In Sweden fathers are loosing custody in 95% of all cases. It doesn't matter if the mother is unfit. She wins anyway. That is abuse and torture for the men and children that are affected, and it's causing a lot of problems for the kids in their life. This needs to stop."



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Dads on the Air
from Peter van de Voorde

October 2008

In matters that demand urgent action, 'deadbeat' governments of the western democracies have become the masters of inaction. For many years these inept governments have allowed the cowboys, bullies and psychopaths of the International finance industry to run amok and dictate how the system operate. The predictable result has seen the collapse of the global financial system and the destruction of the financial security of millions of hard working people around the world. Suddenly we witness a panic-stricken reaction by these same 'deadbeat' governments whose ignorance and inaction caused this disaster in the first place.

There are other areas of concern that have also continued to be ignored and will undoubtedly cause much social upheaval in the future. The subject of social justice is something governments pay much lip service to, but ultimately results in very little action on the ground. One of the greatest areas of concern is the way western governments have mishandled the complex issues surrounding Family Law. Again we witness how the cowboys, bullies and psychopaths of the lucrative divorce industry, have been allowed to take control and run riot for decades. Yet again we see the lives and future of many millions of innocent men, women and children around the globe, destroyed in the process.

Following thirty five years of unimpeded, relentless growth of the International Family Law industry and its mercenaries, we are now starting to see the horrific ramifications of long term widespread International government ignorance and inaction. Many millions of decent, responsible parents and other loving family members are forcibly being removed from their biological children against their will around the globe, at levels that meet the criteria of a pandemic.

One of the problems here is that of the sophisticated brainwashing that has been inflicted on the unsuspecting media, public, bureaucrats and politicians alike. Apart from some tokenism, Governments generally have chosen not to receive policy advice on Family Law matters from credible independent sources. Rather, they seek guidance from their own self-interested bias bureaucracies and senior advisers, or from the family law industry itself. No matter how accurate it may be, cautious and politically in-correct family law advice is not welcomed by governments in the western democracies, nor is it widely reported.

There are other reasons too, why the public hears so little in detail from those who approach family law issues rationally. The so-called family law 'experts' who dominate the debate, do so in a self serving manner, which has nothing to do with delivering justice and equality, but everything to do with maintaining the status quo. Operating intensely on several fronts, most are to do with the intimidation of those speaking out, and the withholding of information, in order to stifle debate.

Firstly, most government employees are gagged from making public comment on contentious issues. Governments prefer to employ government agencies, and making use of their own in house public relations experts, to craft carefully tailored manipulative press releases.

Secondly, researchers are under intense pressure to conform to the prevailing paradigm of feminist propaganda and alarmism, if they wish to receive funding for their research.

Thirdly, self-serving members of the establishment who have a vested interest in maintaining the current badly flawed family law industry, continuously speak in declamatory terms about those who dare to challenge them. The broader community and the mainstream media unquestionably accept this melodramatic propaganda as fact.

Fourthly, we see the suppression of important information on the operations of the family courts, child support agencies and the health profession, which would expose the gross injustices of the system and the horrific effects of the systematic persecution of its victims.

This secrecy gives great cause for community concern. The question that needs to be asked is, why is this information kept secret from the community? What are they hiding? Why are they so afraid? Why are more questions not being asked in our parliaments? This is the same 'deadbeat' governmental ignorance and ineptitude, that brought about the collapse of the global financial system.

Our Governments urgently need to recast the sources from which it draws its advice on family laws. The shrill alarmism of its public advisers, and the often fundamentalist feminist policy initiatives, bubbling up from the depths of the civil service, have all long ago been detached from reality. The international family law industry is an obscene collection of self interest groups, hell bent on ripping as much of the financial resources of unsuspecting separating parents as possible, as acknowledged in a plethora of reports. Every one of the many artificial remedies put forward by successive governments, have proved a costly failure and a complete waste of time and resources. Clearly, the wrong horses are being backed.

Myth making government spin doctors have been elevated to god like status, and their deceitful mythical rhetoric is promoted as gospel and used by those who are benefiting from their ill-gotten gains stripped from separating families. Only a handful of investigative journalists have taken the time to seek out the truth, as these stories tend to be viewed as being politically in-correct and unfashionable, and are not easy to sell in the current climate.

As mooted recently by so many around the globe, perhaps the time has come for the governments of the western democracies, to start sourcing their family law policy making information, from those in the community who are the most disadvantaged and suffering the worst excesses of cruelty from those at the centre of the present debacle. Continuing to source this information from those that are profiteering from this gross travesty of justice, and who themselves are the perpetrators, shows an alarming lack of governmental understanding of the complex issues at hand.

If this enlightenment of our legislators and the media were to occur, then at least, there is the possibility that some real solutions are likely to emerge for breaking the current impasse. This gross betrayal of public trust by so many in positions of influence, makes the great and pretentious look very small and impotent. In fact in the complex area of family law, our political legislators continue to perform in a manner commensurate with those lacking the intellectual aptitude to count to ten.

The voices of reason are as thin on the ground as a cold beer in the middle of the Sahara. How much longer are we going to tolerate this holocaust of our cherished family bonds with our children? How much longer do we continue to sit back and silently accept the propaganda put out by the spin doctors employed by our 'deadbeat' governments?

What can you as an individual do to bring about change?

We can do much, particularly since historically, nothing this unjust is sustainable and therefore change is inevitable. However this problem is not going to resolve itself, and we can see how inept governments are, at solving complex problems. So it is up to us, first and foremost, to start driving the debate and setting the agenda.

Ignorant politicians are drawn from an ignorant community, so we cannot expect our current crop of politicians to provide the answers, it is wholly and solely up to all of us to educate the community. There are many ways an informed community can send the strong message to our politicians, that 'we will no longer tolerate the state forcibly removing children from the love, care and protection of responsible parents'. It is possible,


Peter van de Voorde
Presenter and Researcher



Väteraufbruch für Kinder

7° Familienkongress
am 8./9. November 2008 in Halle/Saale

Für die einen ging sie nicht weit genug, für die anderen war die neue Kindschaftsrechtsreform ein viel zu großer Schritt. Befürchtungen und Ängste gab es auf allen Seiten – bei Befürwortern wie bei Gegnern dieser Reform. Was am 01.07.98 begann und was sich daraus entwickelt hat, dass soll das Thema des 7. Familienkongresses sein:

10 Jahre Erfahrungen mit dem Kindschaftsrecht von 1998
eine Bundesbegleitforschung und eine Bilanz

Der Gesetzgeber hat mit der Einführung des neuen Kindschaftsrechtes eine Begleitforschung in Auftrag gegeben. Was waren die Ergebnisse und was wurde aus dem Wissen? Väter klagten gegen die Ungleichstellung nichtehlicher Kinder bis vor das Bundesverfassungsgericht. Die Reform wurde trotz Benachteiligung nichtehelicher Kinder am 29.01.2003 für verfassungskonform erklärt. Die Bundesregierung wurde allerdings aufgefordert, zu überprüfen, ob ein Missbrauch des Sorgerechtes gegeben sei. Was ist aus diesem Auftrag 5 Jahre nach dem BVerfG-Urteil geworden? Welche Erkenntnisse liegen heute vor?

In den letzten 10 Jahren entstanden neue Wege, neue Modelle, neue Praxen. Alle haben eines gemein; Zusammenarbeit der Professionen, damit Trennungseltern ihre Situation begreifen und annehmen können. Trotz Trennung bleiben sie Eltern für ihre Kinder. In wieweit ist dies gelungen? Hat der Erhalt der gemeinsamen elterlichen Sorge im Regelfall dazu geführt, dass sich der elterliche Streit auf den Umgang verlagert hat?

Was waren die damaligen Intentionen des Gesetzgebers, was waren die Neuerungen? Welche Erfahrungen machten die Praktiker? Was hat sich mit diesem neuen Gesetz verbessert und was muss zukünftig anders gelöst werden?



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